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    • Paul Hess. Ph.D.
    • Mission, Principles, Keys to Health
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  • Eat to Energize
    • Customized Nutrition >
      • Customized Diet
      • 10 Ways to a Diet Right for You
      • Everyone Is Different With Diet
    • Supplements >
      • Your Supplement Graveyard
      • Find Out which Supplements & Foods Strengthen or Weaken You
      • Smart Supplement Selection
    • Deficiency vs Excess >
      • 7 Things Nutritional Deficiencies Do
      • Deficiency Chain Reaction
      • Pain as a Sign of Nutritional Deficiencies
      • Excesses & Metabolic Recycling
    • Minerals >
      • Magnesium Is # 1
      • SALT What You Don't Know About
      • Potassium Deficiency, K?
      • 3 Rejuvenation Minerals
      • Iodine Is Amazing
      • Sulfur Intolerance Success Story
      • Iron: Anemia with Excess Iron
      • Calcium Dangers
      • 3 Sources of Magnesium Might Be Necesssary
      • Unique Mineral Balancing
    • Allergies >
      • Food Allergy & Intolerance
      • Fix Dairy Allergy: Raw Dairy is a Super Healer
    • Cholesterol Is Good
    • Replace Starches with Fruit
    • Upgrade Protein
    • Amino Acids
    • Enzyme Insufficiency Diseases
    • Why does Progress Stop? Chasing Your New Weakest Link
    • Nutrition Basics
    • 6 Features of Successful Nutrition Protocols
  • Detoxify
    • Detoxification Program
    • Why Are You Sensitive to Detoxing?
    • 8 Detox Methods
    • Toxic Metals Test
    • Metals Detoxification in 3 Stages: A New Approach
    • The Anti-Oxidant System >
      • The Antioxidant Network
      • Alpha Lipoic Acid more Comfortably at Higher Doses
      • Detox: A Synthesis of Cutler, Shade, & "Redox before Detox"
    • Bile Flow for Detox, Infection, Digestion
    • Detoxify with Nutrients
    • The Detox Meal
    • Brain Detox thru Circulation to the Head & Spine: Move, Expand, Shake
    • Driving Detox Deeper
    • Coffee Enemas
    • Toxicity: Body Burden & Environment
    • Close Connections Beween Nutrition, Toxicity, Infection
  • Electro Toxic
    • Electro Toxic Defined
    • EMR Symptoms & Sources
    • Is Your WIFi Really Off?
    • Give-Up Your Cell Phone
    • Light Protection
    • Bulbs & Glasses
    • New Respiratory Symptoms & Toxicity
    • Detox Is Electronic Warfare
  • Infections
    • Infection Program
    • 3 Keys to Eliminating Infection
    • Eliminating Infection Requires Detox & Redox
    • Parasites First, Then Candida
    • Immunity Through Organ Strength
    • Is Leaky Gut Caused by Leaky Liver?
    • Immunity Depends on Toxicity & Nutrition
    • Immunity with Enzymes
    • Corona Virus Replay of AIDS Misdiagnosis?
    • Lyme in a New Paradigm
    • Circulation & Dental Infections
    • When to Use Ozone and Oxidizers
    • Close Connections Beween Nutrition, Toxicity, Infection
    • Minerals Control Infection
    • Brain Snatchers
  • Alignment & Pain
    • Alignment Program
    • Pain Program
    • Align from Teeth to Toes: Big Picture
    • Primal Movement
    • How Hips Align the Spine
    • Brain Massage
    • Make Your Brain Think
    • Headaches
    • Orthodontics: A New Frontier
    • Breast Feeding
    • Almost All Body Workers Miss Root Causes
    • Shoes: Your Foundation
    • Injuries from Over-Training
    • Booty and Bust
    • Fibromyalgia
  • Emotional
    • Emotional Progam
    • Shattered & Scattered
    • ANS
    • Don't Take a Deep Breath
    • MIND as a Root Cause
    • Align Spine & Mind
    • Deliverance
  • SUN, Sauna, Lamps
    • How to Use Sunlight at 5 Different Times
    • Far Infrared for Detox
    • UV & Far Infrared Lamps
    • FIR Desk Lamps
    • Relax Sauna & Lamps
    • Avoid Noon Sun?
    • Blood Pressure
    • Sun Intolerance
    • More Physics of Nutrition
    • Cold Intolerance & Cold Conditioning
    • Magnetico
  • Chronic Fatigue
  • Sleep
    • Sleep Program
    • Sleep: 14 Solution Sets
    • Sleep & Nutritional Deficiencies Part I
    • Sleep & Nutritional Deficiencies II
  • Dental
    • Dental Detox
    • Prepare for Dental Surgery
    • Heal Cavities
    • Dental Lymph
    • Circulation & Dental Infections
    • Circulation: Blood, Lymph, Spinal Fluid, Dental
    • Orthodontics: A New Frontier
  • Hormones
    • Adrenal Fatigue in a New Paradigm
    • Thyroid is a Symptom
    • Why Thyroid Treatment Works or Not
    • TESTOSTERONE: Just Tip of the Iceberg
    • Menopause, Andropause, Rejuvenation
    • Testosterone--More
    • Cholesterol Feeds Hormones
    • Brain Commands Hormones
  • Weight
    • ​Lose Weight Through High Energy Nutrients
    • Gain Weight
    • Hard Core Methods
  • Skin
    • Skin Program
    • Skin from the Inside
    • Sun is Good for Skin
    • Toxicity Damages Skin
  • Workout
    • Full Recovery Training
    • Over-Training: Science vs.Emotion
    • Work OUT of Doors
    • Shoes: Your Foundation
    • Workout for Success
  • Health & Romance
    • Health & Romance
    • Sex Drive Diet
    • Managing Sexual Energy
    • Flirt Culture & Tease Culture
    • Men: Tool, Fool, or Cool?
    • Men Leading
  • Fasting
    • Why Fast?
    • Fasting Lifestyle
    • Customized Fasting
    • When Fasting Fails
    • Boost Fasting
    • Dry Fast
    • Famous Athletes
    • Living on Energy
  • New Paradigm
    • The llness Matrix
    • New Health Paradigm
    • 6 Root Causes
    • 4 Signs You are Treating Symptoms not Causes
    • 7 Nutrition Paradigms
    • Over-Specialization is the Hobglobin of Mediocre Minds
    • Science Becomes Religion When:
    • 14 Reasons to Doubt Theories of Viruses
    • Dr. Klinghardt
    • The New Physics
    • Health Technology Paradigms: Tesla versus Rife
    • Healing Machines
    • 6 Levels of Complete Rejuvenation
    • East-West Paradigms: JING: the Deepest Energy
    • Misleading Science
    • What Is Integral Theory?
    • 4 Big Ideas
    • Self Assessment
  • Quality Improvement
    • Engineering Customized, Quantified Protocols
    • Root Causes
    • Complete Solutions
    • Systems Thinking
    • Complexity is the Problem: Syndromes & Spectrums
    • Simplify
    • 3 Principles of Transformation
    • Scientific Method for Personal Health
    • Continuous Improvement of Nutritional Deficiencies
    • Just In Time Coaching
    • Health in Corporate Strategy
    • When Should You See Results?
  • Shop
    • Relax Sauna & Lamps
    • FIR Desk Lamps
    • Magnetico
    • Metals Detox: Coseva TRS
    • Megaspore Probiotic

Managing Sexual Energy
for Physical and Emotional Health 
​

Sexual energy can be both motivating and draining depending on how it is managed.
 
Loss of Physical Energy
 
Men lose energy physically from ejaculation.
 
Women lose energy from menstruation, pregnancy, and nursing.
 
Women
 
Much of post-partum depression is this draining of huge amounts of nutrients that went into the baby.
Extra nutritious foods for pregnancy and lactation can be found, which are basically “for” all vital energies and for men as well.
 
There are techniques for reducing the flow, duration, and symptoms of menstruation that conserve energy while maintaining or improving hormonal regulation. The energy saved can be directed to other areas for healing, or natural breast enlargement that includes self massage. Breast enlargement is not only cosmetic but can be understood as a reserve of feminine energy.  I don’t discuss techniques publically.
 
Men
 
Seminal Retention
 
This means infrequent ejaculation for men, less often the older you get. For young men even waiting a few days makes a difference. For older men a few weeks is often practiced. This makes men more energetic physically and sharper mentally.  I have gone all winter, like 6 months. Winter because there is less sun to rebuild energy from the loss.
 
This can be done no matter how much sex one is having. Although it can feel like torture momentarily to stop, the rewards are worth it. You don’t feel drained. You tune into the deeper things like emotional heart connection you seek and receiving of feminine energy for balance. Your magnetism builds and women are more attracted.
 
Sexual energy is vital life energy that can be channeled into purpose and spirituality. The whole of life can be viewed as a struggle against reptilian instincts to breed, selfishness, and destroying opponents with anger.  Freedom through discipline has been a major theme of my life, like eating a good diet and then people who don’t get it ask, “Don’t you just want to eat cake some time?” No, I don’t want to punish myself with junk food or sexual exhaustion and addiction.
 
No Fap:  Masturbation
 
There has been a movement of men who feel better not masturbating at all because they actually feel better.
​This is one way to prevent the risk of ejaculation. 
 
Porn
 
Many men have also concluded that watching porn give them anxiety and bad dreams. It is also a big waste of time. It conditions to a sexual response separate from heart centered connection, especially given the quality and content of most porn. Viewers are streamlining in foreign energy to their most vulnerable parts.  To Christians this is a portal to entities or demons.
 
Hook-Up Culture
 
Some men also reject hook up culture: having as much casual sex as possible. Some who have succeeded at it have seen clearest that it goes nowhere and stopped to pursue a connection from the heart in a relationship. I have seen men's coaches who teach men to get more sex through  “authentic presence,” instead of the most superficial pick-up artist techniques, still ruin their lives and act like assholes as a result of, in their own words, “getting entities from a woman.”
 
Emotional Neediness
 
Pursuit of sex is exaggerated when one cannot fulfill emotional needs that are not well understood.
 
Neediness with women is modern man’s curse for many reasons:
  1. Lack of masculine role models and friends to separate from mother bounded identity needing female approval.
  2. Lack of individual purpose for fulfillment and to embody masculinity.
  3. Lack of how to select women for emotional depth because men don’t know what complementary feminine is in its kindess and receiving that reflects your worth as a man. 
  4. Lack of spirituality because human beings can never provide all our needs.

Overemphasizing sex is addictive and undermines all of the above.
Sexual distraction is available everywhere, but clarity and quality of the above is hard to find.
 
Often there is a disconnect between attraction and emotions, and it’s not just the fault of men as many women would like to jump on this.  Especially in America many women are not in their feminine with heart to offer. Then they blame men for only wanting sex and not being serious but they have little to offer of depth with endless pornographic selfies. 
 
One of the key things men need to do is make themselves more turned-off by women on an emotional level by developing standards for respect against the cold, nasty, critical, condescending, and emasculating women that men put-up with too often. They are hurt little girls trying to be big bad men.
 
As David Deida says, “There are too many wimps and ballbusters.”
 
Weak men grovel for approval. They seek to “pass tests” rather than instantly reject women for testing them or brushing them off.
 
Many men have trouble with boundaries in relationships by trying to reason with women who are blaming them and twisting words destructively. It’s argue, argue, argue until he stands up for himself and makes her stop.
 
This is a hard thing for idealistic men to accept, the dark side of women that runs rampant and is never fully called out because as soon as you do you are attacked. In a seminar where I used the term “overbearing mother” I was immediately attacked for saying something so unacceptable, which illustrates the point.  It is literally a culture of female narcissism that seeks to destroy the defenses of their vicitms by always pretending to be the victim themselves.
 
Men are overwhelmed by the seeming readiness of women to escalate endlessly until they dominate and out-talk men, so men shut down emotionally and are more likely to go into physical self-soothing through sexual stimulation. This is avoiding conflict through addiction.  Most men are unarmed for the battle and must retreat. Porn bitches don’t bite back. This is the emotional. sexual. cultural dynamic you must see to get free.  
 
American culture is especially distorted compared to some others as I explain and illustrate visually in my page” “Flirt Culture & Tease Culture.”
 
Men have a choice between being a Men Tool, Fool or Cool.


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  • Eat to Energize & Detoxify
  • Free Assessment
  • Health Coaching
    • Health Coaching in 11 Steps
    • 10 Programs
    • Energetic Testing >
      • Energetic Testing of Health Solutions
    • FOCUS Stop Shopping: Implement
    • Poor Implemenation vs Nailing It
    • Just In Time Support
    • Paradigms and Meta Awareness
    • 9 Principles of Health Success
    • 5 Keys to Implementing a Health Plan
    • 6 Kinds of Weak Links
    • Compassion vs Responsibility
    • How to Save Money
  • About
    • Paul Hess. Ph.D.
    • Mission, Principles, Keys to Health
    • Short Story
    • My 8 Qualification & Why I Care
    • Health Journey
  • Results
  • Eat to Energize
    • Customized Nutrition >
      • Customized Diet
      • 10 Ways to a Diet Right for You
      • Everyone Is Different With Diet
    • Supplements >
      • Your Supplement Graveyard
      • Find Out which Supplements & Foods Strengthen or Weaken You
      • Smart Supplement Selection
    • Deficiency vs Excess >
      • 7 Things Nutritional Deficiencies Do
      • Deficiency Chain Reaction
      • Pain as a Sign of Nutritional Deficiencies
      • Excesses & Metabolic Recycling
    • Minerals >
      • Magnesium Is # 1
      • SALT What You Don't Know About
      • Potassium Deficiency, K?
      • 3 Rejuvenation Minerals
      • Iodine Is Amazing
      • Sulfur Intolerance Success Story
      • Iron: Anemia with Excess Iron
      • Calcium Dangers
      • 3 Sources of Magnesium Might Be Necesssary
      • Unique Mineral Balancing
    • Allergies >
      • Food Allergy & Intolerance
      • Fix Dairy Allergy: Raw Dairy is a Super Healer
    • Cholesterol Is Good
    • Replace Starches with Fruit
    • Upgrade Protein
    • Amino Acids
    • Enzyme Insufficiency Diseases
    • Why does Progress Stop? Chasing Your New Weakest Link
    • Nutrition Basics
    • 6 Features of Successful Nutrition Protocols
  • Detoxify
    • Detoxification Program
    • Why Are You Sensitive to Detoxing?
    • 8 Detox Methods
    • Toxic Metals Test
    • Metals Detoxification in 3 Stages: A New Approach
    • The Anti-Oxidant System >
      • The Antioxidant Network
      • Alpha Lipoic Acid more Comfortably at Higher Doses
      • Detox: A Synthesis of Cutler, Shade, & "Redox before Detox"
    • Bile Flow for Detox, Infection, Digestion
    • Detoxify with Nutrients
    • The Detox Meal
    • Brain Detox thru Circulation to the Head & Spine: Move, Expand, Shake
    • Driving Detox Deeper
    • Coffee Enemas
    • Toxicity: Body Burden & Environment
    • Close Connections Beween Nutrition, Toxicity, Infection
  • Electro Toxic
    • Electro Toxic Defined
    • EMR Symptoms & Sources
    • Is Your WIFi Really Off?
    • Give-Up Your Cell Phone
    • Light Protection
    • Bulbs & Glasses
    • New Respiratory Symptoms & Toxicity
    • Detox Is Electronic Warfare
  • Infections
    • Infection Program
    • 3 Keys to Eliminating Infection
    • Eliminating Infection Requires Detox & Redox
    • Parasites First, Then Candida
    • Immunity Through Organ Strength
    • Is Leaky Gut Caused by Leaky Liver?
    • Immunity Depends on Toxicity & Nutrition
    • Immunity with Enzymes
    • Corona Virus Replay of AIDS Misdiagnosis?
    • Lyme in a New Paradigm
    • Circulation & Dental Infections
    • When to Use Ozone and Oxidizers
    • Close Connections Beween Nutrition, Toxicity, Infection
    • Minerals Control Infection
    • Brain Snatchers
  • Alignment & Pain
    • Alignment Program
    • Pain Program
    • Align from Teeth to Toes: Big Picture
    • Primal Movement
    • How Hips Align the Spine
    • Brain Massage
    • Make Your Brain Think
    • Headaches
    • Orthodontics: A New Frontier
    • Breast Feeding
    • Almost All Body Workers Miss Root Causes
    • Shoes: Your Foundation
    • Injuries from Over-Training
    • Booty and Bust
    • Fibromyalgia
  • Emotional
    • Emotional Progam
    • Shattered & Scattered
    • ANS
    • Don't Take a Deep Breath
    • MIND as a Root Cause
    • Align Spine & Mind
    • Deliverance
  • SUN, Sauna, Lamps
    • How to Use Sunlight at 5 Different Times
    • Far Infrared for Detox
    • UV & Far Infrared Lamps
    • FIR Desk Lamps
    • Relax Sauna & Lamps
    • Avoid Noon Sun?
    • Blood Pressure
    • Sun Intolerance
    • More Physics of Nutrition
    • Cold Intolerance & Cold Conditioning
    • Magnetico
  • Chronic Fatigue
  • Sleep
    • Sleep Program
    • Sleep: 14 Solution Sets
    • Sleep & Nutritional Deficiencies Part I
    • Sleep & Nutritional Deficiencies II
  • Dental
    • Dental Detox
    • Prepare for Dental Surgery
    • Heal Cavities
    • Dental Lymph
    • Circulation & Dental Infections
    • Circulation: Blood, Lymph, Spinal Fluid, Dental
    • Orthodontics: A New Frontier
  • Hormones
    • Adrenal Fatigue in a New Paradigm
    • Thyroid is a Symptom
    • Why Thyroid Treatment Works or Not
    • TESTOSTERONE: Just Tip of the Iceberg
    • Menopause, Andropause, Rejuvenation
    • Testosterone--More
    • Cholesterol Feeds Hormones
    • Brain Commands Hormones
  • Weight
    • ​Lose Weight Through High Energy Nutrients
    • Gain Weight
    • Hard Core Methods
  • Skin
    • Skin Program
    • Skin from the Inside
    • Sun is Good for Skin
    • Toxicity Damages Skin
  • Workout
    • Full Recovery Training
    • Over-Training: Science vs.Emotion
    • Work OUT of Doors
    • Shoes: Your Foundation
    • Workout for Success
  • Health & Romance
    • Health & Romance
    • Sex Drive Diet
    • Managing Sexual Energy
    • Flirt Culture & Tease Culture
    • Men: Tool, Fool, or Cool?
    • Men Leading
  • Fasting
    • Why Fast?
    • Fasting Lifestyle
    • Customized Fasting
    • When Fasting Fails
    • Boost Fasting
    • Dry Fast
    • Famous Athletes
    • Living on Energy
  • New Paradigm
    • The llness Matrix
    • New Health Paradigm
    • 6 Root Causes
    • 4 Signs You are Treating Symptoms not Causes
    • 7 Nutrition Paradigms
    • Over-Specialization is the Hobglobin of Mediocre Minds
    • Science Becomes Religion When:
    • 14 Reasons to Doubt Theories of Viruses
    • Dr. Klinghardt
    • The New Physics
    • Health Technology Paradigms: Tesla versus Rife
    • Healing Machines
    • 6 Levels of Complete Rejuvenation
    • East-West Paradigms: JING: the Deepest Energy
    • Misleading Science
    • What Is Integral Theory?
    • 4 Big Ideas
    • Self Assessment
  • Quality Improvement
    • Engineering Customized, Quantified Protocols
    • Root Causes
    • Complete Solutions
    • Systems Thinking
    • Complexity is the Problem: Syndromes & Spectrums
    • Simplify
    • 3 Principles of Transformation
    • Scientific Method for Personal Health
    • Continuous Improvement of Nutritional Deficiencies
    • Just In Time Coaching
    • Health in Corporate Strategy
    • When Should You See Results?
  • Shop
    • Relax Sauna & Lamps
    • FIR Desk Lamps
    • Magnetico
    • Metals Detox: Coseva TRS
    • Megaspore Probiotic