Managing Sexual Energy
for Physical and Emotional Health
Sexual energy can be both motivating and draining depending on how it is managed.
Loss of Physical Energy
Men lose energy physically from ejaculation.
Women lose energy from menstruation, pregnancy, and nursing.
Women
Much of post-partum depression is this draining of huge amounts of nutrients that went into the baby.
Extra nutritious foods for pregnancy and lactation can be found, which are basically “for” all vital energies and for men as well.
There are techniques for reducing the flow, duration, and symptoms of menstruation that conserve energy while maintaining or improving hormonal regulation. The energy saved can be directed to other areas for healing, or natural breast enlargement that includes self massage. Breast enlargement is not only cosmetic but can be understood as a reserve of feminine energy. I don’t discuss techniques publically.
Men
Seminal Retention
This means infrequent ejaculation for men, less often the older you get. For young men even waiting a few days makes a difference. For older men a few weeks is often practiced. This makes men more energetic physically and sharper mentally. I have gone all winter, like 6 months. Winter because there is less sun to rebuild energy from the loss.
This can be done no matter how much sex one is having. Although it can feel like torture momentarily to stop, the rewards are worth it. You don’t feel drained. You tune into the deeper things like emotional heart connection you seek and receiving of feminine energy for balance. Your magnetism builds and women are more attracted.
Sexual energy is vital life energy that can be channeled into purpose and spirituality. The whole of life can be viewed as a struggle against reptilian instincts to breed, selfishness, and destroying opponents with anger. Freedom through discipline has been a major theme of my life, like eating a good diet and then people who don’t get it ask, “Don’t you just want to eat cake some time?” No, I don’t want to punish myself with junk food or sexual exhaustion and addiction.
No Fap: Masturbation
There has been a movement of men who feel better not masturbating at all because they actually feel better.
This is one way to prevent the risk of ejaculation.
Porn
Many men have also concluded that watching porn give them anxiety and bad dreams. It is also a big waste of time. It conditions to a sexual response separate from heart centered connection, especially given the quality and content of most porn. Viewers are streamlining in foreign energy to their most vulnerable parts. To Christians this is a portal to entities or demons.
Hook-Up Culture
Some men also reject hook up culture: having as much casual sex as possible. Some who have succeeded at it have seen clearest that it goes nowhere and stopped to pursue a connection from the heart in a relationship. I have seen men's coaches who teach men to get more sex through “authentic presence,” instead of the most superficial pick-up artist techniques, still ruin their lives and act like assholes as a result of, in their own words, “getting entities from a woman.”
Emotional Neediness
Pursuit of sex is exaggerated when one cannot fulfill emotional needs that are not well understood.
Neediness with women is modern man’s curse for many reasons:
Overemphasizing sex is addictive and undermines all of the above.
Sexual distraction is available everywhere, but clarity and quality of the above is hard to find.
Often there is a disconnect between attraction and emotions, and it’s not just the fault of men as many women would like to jump on this. Especially in America many women are not in their feminine with heart to offer. Then they blame men for only wanting sex and not being serious but they have little to offer of depth with endless pornographic selfies.
One of the key things men need to do is make themselves more turned-off by women on an emotional level by developing standards for respect against the cold, nasty, critical, condescending, and emasculating women that men put-up with too often. They are hurt little girls trying to be big bad men.
As David Deida says, “There are too many wimps and ballbusters.”
Weak men grovel for approval. They seek to “pass tests” rather than instantly reject women for testing them or brushing them off.
Many men have trouble with boundaries in relationships by trying to reason with women who are blaming them and twisting words destructively. It’s argue, argue, argue until he stands up for himself and makes her stop.
This is a hard thing for idealistic men to accept, the dark side of women that runs rampant and is never fully called out because as soon as you do you are attacked. In a seminar where I used the term “overbearing mother” I was immediately attacked for saying something so unacceptable, which illustrates the point. It is literally a culture of female narcissism that seeks to destroy the defenses of their vicitms by always pretending to be the victim themselves.
Men are overwhelmed by the seeming readiness of women to escalate endlessly until they dominate and out-talk men, so men shut down emotionally and are more likely to go into physical self-soothing through sexual stimulation. This is avoiding conflict through addiction. Most men are unarmed for the battle and must retreat. Porn bitches don’t bite back. This is the emotional. sexual. cultural dynamic you must see to get free.
American culture is especially distorted compared to some others as I explain and illustrate visually in my page” “Flirt Culture & Tease Culture.”
Men have a choice between being a Men Tool, Fool or Cool.
Loss of Physical Energy
Men lose energy physically from ejaculation.
Women lose energy from menstruation, pregnancy, and nursing.
Women
Much of post-partum depression is this draining of huge amounts of nutrients that went into the baby.
Extra nutritious foods for pregnancy and lactation can be found, which are basically “for” all vital energies and for men as well.
There are techniques for reducing the flow, duration, and symptoms of menstruation that conserve energy while maintaining or improving hormonal regulation. The energy saved can be directed to other areas for healing, or natural breast enlargement that includes self massage. Breast enlargement is not only cosmetic but can be understood as a reserve of feminine energy. I don’t discuss techniques publically.
Men
Seminal Retention
This means infrequent ejaculation for men, less often the older you get. For young men even waiting a few days makes a difference. For older men a few weeks is often practiced. This makes men more energetic physically and sharper mentally. I have gone all winter, like 6 months. Winter because there is less sun to rebuild energy from the loss.
This can be done no matter how much sex one is having. Although it can feel like torture momentarily to stop, the rewards are worth it. You don’t feel drained. You tune into the deeper things like emotional heart connection you seek and receiving of feminine energy for balance. Your magnetism builds and women are more attracted.
Sexual energy is vital life energy that can be channeled into purpose and spirituality. The whole of life can be viewed as a struggle against reptilian instincts to breed, selfishness, and destroying opponents with anger. Freedom through discipline has been a major theme of my life, like eating a good diet and then people who don’t get it ask, “Don’t you just want to eat cake some time?” No, I don’t want to punish myself with junk food or sexual exhaustion and addiction.
No Fap: Masturbation
There has been a movement of men who feel better not masturbating at all because they actually feel better.
This is one way to prevent the risk of ejaculation.
Porn
Many men have also concluded that watching porn give them anxiety and bad dreams. It is also a big waste of time. It conditions to a sexual response separate from heart centered connection, especially given the quality and content of most porn. Viewers are streamlining in foreign energy to their most vulnerable parts. To Christians this is a portal to entities or demons.
Hook-Up Culture
Some men also reject hook up culture: having as much casual sex as possible. Some who have succeeded at it have seen clearest that it goes nowhere and stopped to pursue a connection from the heart in a relationship. I have seen men's coaches who teach men to get more sex through “authentic presence,” instead of the most superficial pick-up artist techniques, still ruin their lives and act like assholes as a result of, in their own words, “getting entities from a woman.”
Emotional Neediness
Pursuit of sex is exaggerated when one cannot fulfill emotional needs that are not well understood.
Neediness with women is modern man’s curse for many reasons:
- Lack of masculine role models and friends to separate from mother bounded identity needing female approval.
- Lack of individual purpose for fulfillment and to embody masculinity.
- Lack of how to select women for emotional depth because men don’t know what complementary feminine is in its kindess and receiving that reflects your worth as a man.
- Lack of spirituality because human beings can never provide all our needs.
Overemphasizing sex is addictive and undermines all of the above.
Sexual distraction is available everywhere, but clarity and quality of the above is hard to find.
Often there is a disconnect between attraction and emotions, and it’s not just the fault of men as many women would like to jump on this. Especially in America many women are not in their feminine with heart to offer. Then they blame men for only wanting sex and not being serious but they have little to offer of depth with endless pornographic selfies.
One of the key things men need to do is make themselves more turned-off by women on an emotional level by developing standards for respect against the cold, nasty, critical, condescending, and emasculating women that men put-up with too often. They are hurt little girls trying to be big bad men.
As David Deida says, “There are too many wimps and ballbusters.”
Weak men grovel for approval. They seek to “pass tests” rather than instantly reject women for testing them or brushing them off.
Many men have trouble with boundaries in relationships by trying to reason with women who are blaming them and twisting words destructively. It’s argue, argue, argue until he stands up for himself and makes her stop.
This is a hard thing for idealistic men to accept, the dark side of women that runs rampant and is never fully called out because as soon as you do you are attacked. In a seminar where I used the term “overbearing mother” I was immediately attacked for saying something so unacceptable, which illustrates the point. It is literally a culture of female narcissism that seeks to destroy the defenses of their vicitms by always pretending to be the victim themselves.
Men are overwhelmed by the seeming readiness of women to escalate endlessly until they dominate and out-talk men, so men shut down emotionally and are more likely to go into physical self-soothing through sexual stimulation. This is avoiding conflict through addiction. Most men are unarmed for the battle and must retreat. Porn bitches don’t bite back. This is the emotional. sexual. cultural dynamic you must see to get free.
American culture is especially distorted compared to some others as I explain and illustrate visually in my page” “Flirt Culture & Tease Culture.”
Men have a choice between being a Men Tool, Fool or Cool.
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to master your life and improve relationships with women.
and let's talk over video
I work over video: Facebook, Zoom, Google, from Michigan, USA
Hess.PaulC@gmail.com
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Systematic
enough to make a difference
Simple
enough to implement
Sensitive
to individual needs
