Breaking The Curse of Female Beauty on Women & Men
Is about women who get too much unwanted attention and are not seen for who they are.
It’s also about women cutting down women through jealousy competition.
Women who become famous like models can get lost in the reflection back from others because of what they put out and become how people see them.
Hot women spend so much time playing defense that may not have enough time alone to figure out who they are.
Monica Bellucci says she was never left alone from the age of 14 to 49.
For men, the curse is drinking in visually physical beauty like a drug and allowing the chains of lust to be jerked.
For some men it’s about envy and being angry at what they can’t have rather than focusing on what they can do.
This is all based on low level responses but there are other options.
What people really want and need is love, so the issue is how to make love bigger than physical beauty alone.
Breaking the Curse: Beauty as Love
A woman’s highest beauty is actually based on her feminine love she radiates, explains Monica Bellucci, model and actress who was voted in many polls as the most beautiful woman in the world all the way up to age 43.
That extra something that makes her stand out is the love expressed through her face, voice and graceful movement.
It is also her range of expression that reflects an emotional intelligence that makes her a great actress, such as in the movie Malena explained in the accompanying video here.
Her love follows from the integration of knowing how her beliefs affect her emotions and physical appearance. She has positive beliefs about men and her expressions toward them follow from that. She essentially strives for being in the world as love.
This gives more hope to people as they age or who don’t have certain genetics.
Bellucci says beauty through the eyes increases with age and your soul get younger.
She says sexy is about energy, not age.
It’s how people make us feel. Everyone has physical preferences, but you got to work with what you got and your attitude counts for how people respond to you. You only need one special person so don’t blame a whole gender because you can’t fix yourself to find one person.
I have explained her brilliant paradigm of beauty in:
Feminine Love with Monica Bellucci: Wearing Her Heart on Her Face.
I also brought up how men can receive and reciprocate this love, which I turn to now.
Breaking the Curse: Men Receiving Love
Beauty without love can be a weapon against us.
Many visual presentations of women are as cold eyed, seductive and haughty teases.
Women’s beauty power can be used to manipulate.
When meeting women we need signs of safety to avoid rejection: kindness and gentleness, without angry hard faces and sharp movements.
Just sexual attraction leads to clouded judgment.
We learn to look for signs of femininity with kindness.
It’s easier with women who are not trying to attract just with hotness as if that’s the main thing they have to offer and don’t know how to connect otherwise.
To not be vulnerable to this dynamic men have to tame their own desire and lust that can torment us. Lust is greedy and grabby. It’s a hard compulsive feeling that gets your adrenalin running for a chase. It’s animalistic and isolated masculine quality. Women can feel it and it’s generally a turn off.
The other extreme is to not feel anything because you are ashamed to be male. That is also hyper masculine even if you are feminist male because you are in your head and denying your feelings and don’t have individual autonomy from the influence of others, a healthy aspect of the masculine. Then she has no sexiness to feel in a man.
Women feel what you are feeling.
Men need to learn to receive from a woman by feel with their heart or whole body, including their turn on.
The reason that it’s hard for men to understand this at first is not because they are stupid, but because they are conditioned to be exploited as a tool and worker for the boss man or a boss lady. And they can’t see that when they are told they are all privileged members of patriarchy that really does not apply in America. Most men are trained to sacrifice their bodies in war, work, for others, especially men at the bottom of the hierarchy. This is a one sided hyper masculine role.
The proper way to feel is not to express yourself in a feminine way with gushing compliments all over her as that leads to rejection.
Feeling is about digging your own needs first, like respect.
If you can’t even defend yourself how are you going to defend her?
I once saw a woman on dating show be rude to a guy and criticized him for not defending himself saying exactly that. There is a dark side to women that naïve men can’t see and that many women deny.
Receiving feeling from a woman is a feminine quality that works for a man within the framework of being masculine and makes men more masculine by receiving love from women as a dance of polar energies that feed each other.
I want to feel the level of her feminine love and for individual chemistry between us.
Converse with curiosity to know her to explore compatibility because I have not already decided to possess her as if I have no standards but the physical.
I only express sincere appreciation not overdone compliments that are manipulative.
Men’s curse is neediness. We often feel we need them more than they need us, within this social context of America where men have been devalued.
If a woman sees you know what you want and know how to take care of yourself it can help reassure her that you are not just empty vessel of neediness to be filled by her.
Freedom is receiving what women have to offer without expecting anything.
Receiving feminine energy without an agenda is pleasant and soothing.
It helps us get out of the prison of our heads and always doing as men.
Appreciative flirting even for a few seconds is common in flirt cultures like France, Italy, Thailand, Latin American. Pleasantries brighten one’s day. Having many experiences help distinguish who should be pursued and how to back off fast when not.
Sharing kindness and love is magical.
As someone committed to this heart centered approach I don’t enjoy so much seductive sexiness in pictures and film. Women, try to understand the perspective of guy not trying to be like the staring men in the movie Malena.
Women who show so much and act seductive can contribute to the curse on themselves by appealing to the lower that distracts from the higher. It is naïve to just say men are responsible for their actions. Sure if you are talking about men should not touch a woman no matter how she dresses. But the premise of this whole conversation is that we influence each other. I can’t give any rules about how much skin to show in what contexts, but it’s something that is complex and needs to be explored with more honesty and concern for others.
I’ve shifted my focus to the face and eyes.
The eyes of women who get older can have more experience and feeling that I could be loved by them. If they are not bitter and let themselves go physically.
It’s noticeable how being a mother can deepen a woman’s love. Bring on the healing mamas!
The most lit up look in the eyes is by far feminine women with Holy Spirit in them. Not all Christians are both, but it is distinct and I can often see it in pictures on Facebook and confirm that they are believers. Probably you have to be it to see, have the HS in you, too.
You get the Holy Spirit in you through Christian practices I explained in my first article on Bellucci that partly in the form of a personal letter to her and prayer for her.
It’s hard to talk about Christian sexuality without feeling the love of God first to conquer lust further than discussed above. I’m no boring prude and was quite the opposite. It was an overall a waste of time to chase women like that. Most people really need to be suffering to change.
I believe Christianity can be explained better and presented in more appealing ways so I write a lot for a broader audience also. I especially discuss people like Bellucci who could make a contribution to God’s kingdom on earth with her insight into feminine love. Feminine qualities are not explained in much detail in the Bible but are called for.
It’s also about women cutting down women through jealousy competition.
Women who become famous like models can get lost in the reflection back from others because of what they put out and become how people see them.
Hot women spend so much time playing defense that may not have enough time alone to figure out who they are.
Monica Bellucci says she was never left alone from the age of 14 to 49.
For men, the curse is drinking in visually physical beauty like a drug and allowing the chains of lust to be jerked.
For some men it’s about envy and being angry at what they can’t have rather than focusing on what they can do.
This is all based on low level responses but there are other options.
What people really want and need is love, so the issue is how to make love bigger than physical beauty alone.
Breaking the Curse: Beauty as Love
A woman’s highest beauty is actually based on her feminine love she radiates, explains Monica Bellucci, model and actress who was voted in many polls as the most beautiful woman in the world all the way up to age 43.
That extra something that makes her stand out is the love expressed through her face, voice and graceful movement.
It is also her range of expression that reflects an emotional intelligence that makes her a great actress, such as in the movie Malena explained in the accompanying video here.
Her love follows from the integration of knowing how her beliefs affect her emotions and physical appearance. She has positive beliefs about men and her expressions toward them follow from that. She essentially strives for being in the world as love.
This gives more hope to people as they age or who don’t have certain genetics.
Bellucci says beauty through the eyes increases with age and your soul get younger.
She says sexy is about energy, not age.
It’s how people make us feel. Everyone has physical preferences, but you got to work with what you got and your attitude counts for how people respond to you. You only need one special person so don’t blame a whole gender because you can’t fix yourself to find one person.
I have explained her brilliant paradigm of beauty in:
Feminine Love with Monica Bellucci: Wearing Her Heart on Her Face.
I also brought up how men can receive and reciprocate this love, which I turn to now.
Breaking the Curse: Men Receiving Love
Beauty without love can be a weapon against us.
Many visual presentations of women are as cold eyed, seductive and haughty teases.
Women’s beauty power can be used to manipulate.
When meeting women we need signs of safety to avoid rejection: kindness and gentleness, without angry hard faces and sharp movements.
Just sexual attraction leads to clouded judgment.
We learn to look for signs of femininity with kindness.
It’s easier with women who are not trying to attract just with hotness as if that’s the main thing they have to offer and don’t know how to connect otherwise.
To not be vulnerable to this dynamic men have to tame their own desire and lust that can torment us. Lust is greedy and grabby. It’s a hard compulsive feeling that gets your adrenalin running for a chase. It’s animalistic and isolated masculine quality. Women can feel it and it’s generally a turn off.
The other extreme is to not feel anything because you are ashamed to be male. That is also hyper masculine even if you are feminist male because you are in your head and denying your feelings and don’t have individual autonomy from the influence of others, a healthy aspect of the masculine. Then she has no sexiness to feel in a man.
Women feel what you are feeling.
Men need to learn to receive from a woman by feel with their heart or whole body, including their turn on.
The reason that it’s hard for men to understand this at first is not because they are stupid, but because they are conditioned to be exploited as a tool and worker for the boss man or a boss lady. And they can’t see that when they are told they are all privileged members of patriarchy that really does not apply in America. Most men are trained to sacrifice their bodies in war, work, for others, especially men at the bottom of the hierarchy. This is a one sided hyper masculine role.
The proper way to feel is not to express yourself in a feminine way with gushing compliments all over her as that leads to rejection.
Feeling is about digging your own needs first, like respect.
If you can’t even defend yourself how are you going to defend her?
I once saw a woman on dating show be rude to a guy and criticized him for not defending himself saying exactly that. There is a dark side to women that naïve men can’t see and that many women deny.
Receiving feeling from a woman is a feminine quality that works for a man within the framework of being masculine and makes men more masculine by receiving love from women as a dance of polar energies that feed each other.
I want to feel the level of her feminine love and for individual chemistry between us.
Converse with curiosity to know her to explore compatibility because I have not already decided to possess her as if I have no standards but the physical.
I only express sincere appreciation not overdone compliments that are manipulative.
Men’s curse is neediness. We often feel we need them more than they need us, within this social context of America where men have been devalued.
If a woman sees you know what you want and know how to take care of yourself it can help reassure her that you are not just empty vessel of neediness to be filled by her.
Freedom is receiving what women have to offer without expecting anything.
Receiving feminine energy without an agenda is pleasant and soothing.
It helps us get out of the prison of our heads and always doing as men.
Appreciative flirting even for a few seconds is common in flirt cultures like France, Italy, Thailand, Latin American. Pleasantries brighten one’s day. Having many experiences help distinguish who should be pursued and how to back off fast when not.
Sharing kindness and love is magical.
As someone committed to this heart centered approach I don’t enjoy so much seductive sexiness in pictures and film. Women, try to understand the perspective of guy not trying to be like the staring men in the movie Malena.
Women who show so much and act seductive can contribute to the curse on themselves by appealing to the lower that distracts from the higher. It is naïve to just say men are responsible for their actions. Sure if you are talking about men should not touch a woman no matter how she dresses. But the premise of this whole conversation is that we influence each other. I can’t give any rules about how much skin to show in what contexts, but it’s something that is complex and needs to be explored with more honesty and concern for others.
I’ve shifted my focus to the face and eyes.
The eyes of women who get older can have more experience and feeling that I could be loved by them. If they are not bitter and let themselves go physically.
It’s noticeable how being a mother can deepen a woman’s love. Bring on the healing mamas!
The most lit up look in the eyes is by far feminine women with Holy Spirit in them. Not all Christians are both, but it is distinct and I can often see it in pictures on Facebook and confirm that they are believers. Probably you have to be it to see, have the HS in you, too.
You get the Holy Spirit in you through Christian practices I explained in my first article on Bellucci that partly in the form of a personal letter to her and prayer for her.
It’s hard to talk about Christian sexuality without feeling the love of God first to conquer lust further than discussed above. I’m no boring prude and was quite the opposite. It was an overall a waste of time to chase women like that. Most people really need to be suffering to change.
I believe Christianity can be explained better and presented in more appealing ways so I write a lot for a broader audience also. I especially discuss people like Bellucci who could make a contribution to God’s kingdom on earth with her insight into feminine love. Feminine qualities are not explained in much detail in the Bible but are called for.
