Sharing the Healing Mamas:
An Affectionate View of Breasts
The main function of breasts is nurturing. Breastfeeding produces oxytocin in women, the love hormone.
Couples who have practiced adult breastfeeding report incredible levels of intimacy. How that works for men is not exactly clear.
I now imagine having affection through breasts just hugging with face in the chest through clothes or not. Not as a part of foreplay to sex since I am celibate until married but crave affection. I would stop if I started to get horny.
I think I would feel incredible acceptance for her receiving me there.
It's been awhile for me so I would probably cry. Then she would understand.
I've never had a problem with women and crying even on a first date. I don't pick losers who just want to use me.
I think this brings out the nurturing qualities in women.
I would like to play papacito and mamacita with a woman. This is part of exploring intimacy without jumping into sex and the addictions and judgements it clouds.
Breasts have overwhelming power and need to be reframed as expressions of love not incitement to lust the way they are used now.
This takes a degree of insight into the whole context. I tune into feminine radiance that expresses love, not just hotness. The smile is the key determinant of that energy. Seduction is serious so you don't feel affection and get kicked down to lust out of boredom from missing the higher feminine energy.
Breasts are beautiful roaming free.
Nipples poking through.
Hanging low and heaving gracefully when walking.
Strapped in if that makes you feel more comfortable.
When I'm tuned into feminine love this is soothing and uplifting.
Lust is a hard feeling like you have to chase it and have it.
It's not easy to do this. If you're young you're likely to get overstimulated.
That's why modest dressing for women is a good idea. It can be hard to hide breasts so they don't have to be on full display.