Christianity's Crisis of Masculinity
Dogmatic Hyper Masculinity
Nicey, Nicey Feminization
Dogmatic lectures without sensitivity. These are the ultra serious preachers who never smile and you don’t really feel love from them. People are afraid they will be condemned by them and get beat over the head with the bible for being a fornicator. Lol.
They may know the word to a point, but there is usually some false doctrine in there, like support for Israel that is not in the bible and support for the current genocide as if the old testament command to “kill every man, woman, and child” of the nephilim monsters was just given. Even though many don’t know the current history of Israel due to Zionist propaganda, many Christians have figured out there is no such thing as a star of David, it’s the star of Satan and Israel is the terrorist and pure evil, period. If you can’t feel enough to realize that, you’re lost, move on.
But of course many people want to avoid politics and confronting false doctrines.
Either they overly confront with a Satanic panic, or not enough.
This is where competent leadership and discretion is important.
This brings us to the problem of nicey, nicey.
Nicey nicey weakness that can’t be trusted.
These folks are easy to get along with at first but problems come up later without a body of Christ immune system to fight the subtle and insidious creeping spiritual infections.
Both of these are forms of masculine and feminine imbalance:
The former is in-your-head hyper masculinity.
The later is hyper-feminine agreeableness without boundaries or clear masculine leadership.
Masculine and feminine logic is part of the moral reasoning of the bible that starts with Jesus as the bridegroom and all followers are the receivers as the bride of Christ.
Masculine and feminine are both qualities within each of us and between men and women.
Let’s start with what the bible says about what it means to be a feminine women.
1: Peter 3 talks about the high value of a woman being gentle and quiet soul, although some translations are mangled from the original purpose of this passage.
Proverbs 31 only talks about a wife as her role as a manager of the household economy, which is a masculine role.
The most repeated instruction for marriage is for women to submit to their husband as head the household. This is not detailed, so it deserved further discussion but it is often completely unacceptable to bring up in churches that don’t want to offend modern women raised on feminism and independence. This is nicey nicey.
Nicey nicey is feeling based feminine reasoning, not the word of God.
The men are too feminized to have masculine boundaries and are afraid of their women nagging them to death if they don’t get their way like a man chased out on the corner of roof to get way from here, to paraphrase the bible
People don’t know this is exactly the problem the bible warns in the fall as the third curse on women: that she will desire to control her husband, be contrary to, or desire (to use) in a sinful way her husband, like to use him, to paraphrase three different translations of Genesis 3:16.
This is how the bible says that the enemy will use women to attack men.
Modern women focus on the compensation of “he shall rule over you” which is the harsh measure for the problem that women initiated. This is more the problem in Muslim or macho countries. But then the compensation is lifted and women get their freedom many abuse men like in American where female abuse of men is far more common and mostly denied.
There is a huge denial of this because of female narcissistic manipulation to always be the victim and cut down any feedback like emasculating a man by telling him he is too sensitive.
This the work of Jezebel, which is everywhere.
And most men are Ahabs or Ahabed and can’t defend themselves, including Christians.
And then again Isaiah 3 states the curse again as women and children with be leading men, as reversal of God’s order.
This creeps in many subtle ways. Like when I get a prayer from woman who lacks boundaries: asking me too many questions about my personal life, giving completely unnecessary advice like I need as doctor as if i am retarded child, being told to the read the bible everyday like I a am beginner. It’s overbearing. The gas lighting response would be that “I’m just trying to help” rather than having some sensitivity because men always need instructions how to feel, think and behave. More often something feels off with women.
I should tell her to stop trying to lead men and go home and submit to her husband.
I have sought prayers from women and small prayer teams lead by a woman that worked fine. But the common big enough to have some context to understanding some parts of the bible that seem extreme to the modern ear. There are reasons that need to be understood and cannot be dismissed based your feelings. These are not always black and white issues.
I think the balance is found in better practicing masculine and feminine roles as the bible calls for, although pursuing it in more detail than is commonly understood, so that both men and women can be more trusted overall to escape the curse.
If Christians really want to help others then give greater leadership in marriage with making clear what good leadership and boundaries look like.
One good way to understand masculine and feminine is through visual images that say a thousand words with deeper feelings.
I have posted repeatedly the loving feminine in pictures, videos and words.
The feminine radiates from women more easily from images than it does from men.
Masculinity is more about doing stuff to prove stuff.
For that I will make dance videos to show how a warrior moves.
Part of masculinity is sacrifice: the short for the long term, self for others, flesh for spirit.
The ultimate sacrifice is Jesus on the cross that gives us the power to do everything.
I will dance the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus.
It will be the wildest dance you ever saw. I have unleashed my wild man dance style in clubs in clubs where people watched or said I was the best dancer in the club—and that was before I was spirit filled.
I say let’s make Christianity cool without compromise. Compromise is feminized. The ultimate masculine comes from God the father.
Bring on the Holy Spirit, baby!
Nicey, Nicey Feminization
Dogmatic lectures without sensitivity. These are the ultra serious preachers who never smile and you don’t really feel love from them. People are afraid they will be condemned by them and get beat over the head with the bible for being a fornicator. Lol.
They may know the word to a point, but there is usually some false doctrine in there, like support for Israel that is not in the bible and support for the current genocide as if the old testament command to “kill every man, woman, and child” of the nephilim monsters was just given. Even though many don’t know the current history of Israel due to Zionist propaganda, many Christians have figured out there is no such thing as a star of David, it’s the star of Satan and Israel is the terrorist and pure evil, period. If you can’t feel enough to realize that, you’re lost, move on.
But of course many people want to avoid politics and confronting false doctrines.
Either they overly confront with a Satanic panic, or not enough.
This is where competent leadership and discretion is important.
This brings us to the problem of nicey, nicey.
Nicey nicey weakness that can’t be trusted.
These folks are easy to get along with at first but problems come up later without a body of Christ immune system to fight the subtle and insidious creeping spiritual infections.
Both of these are forms of masculine and feminine imbalance:
The former is in-your-head hyper masculinity.
The later is hyper-feminine agreeableness without boundaries or clear masculine leadership.
Masculine and feminine logic is part of the moral reasoning of the bible that starts with Jesus as the bridegroom and all followers are the receivers as the bride of Christ.
Masculine and feminine are both qualities within each of us and between men and women.
Let’s start with what the bible says about what it means to be a feminine women.
1: Peter 3 talks about the high value of a woman being gentle and quiet soul, although some translations are mangled from the original purpose of this passage.
Proverbs 31 only talks about a wife as her role as a manager of the household economy, which is a masculine role.
The most repeated instruction for marriage is for women to submit to their husband as head the household. This is not detailed, so it deserved further discussion but it is often completely unacceptable to bring up in churches that don’t want to offend modern women raised on feminism and independence. This is nicey nicey.
Nicey nicey is feeling based feminine reasoning, not the word of God.
The men are too feminized to have masculine boundaries and are afraid of their women nagging them to death if they don’t get their way like a man chased out on the corner of roof to get way from here, to paraphrase the bible
People don’t know this is exactly the problem the bible warns in the fall as the third curse on women: that she will desire to control her husband, be contrary to, or desire (to use) in a sinful way her husband, like to use him, to paraphrase three different translations of Genesis 3:16.
This is how the bible says that the enemy will use women to attack men.
Modern women focus on the compensation of “he shall rule over you” which is the harsh measure for the problem that women initiated. This is more the problem in Muslim or macho countries. But then the compensation is lifted and women get their freedom many abuse men like in American where female abuse of men is far more common and mostly denied.
There is a huge denial of this because of female narcissistic manipulation to always be the victim and cut down any feedback like emasculating a man by telling him he is too sensitive.
This the work of Jezebel, which is everywhere.
And most men are Ahabs or Ahabed and can’t defend themselves, including Christians.
And then again Isaiah 3 states the curse again as women and children with be leading men, as reversal of God’s order.
This creeps in many subtle ways. Like when I get a prayer from woman who lacks boundaries: asking me too many questions about my personal life, giving completely unnecessary advice like I need as doctor as if i am retarded child, being told to the read the bible everyday like I a am beginner. It’s overbearing. The gas lighting response would be that “I’m just trying to help” rather than having some sensitivity because men always need instructions how to feel, think and behave. More often something feels off with women.
I should tell her to stop trying to lead men and go home and submit to her husband.
I have sought prayers from women and small prayer teams lead by a woman that worked fine. But the common big enough to have some context to understanding some parts of the bible that seem extreme to the modern ear. There are reasons that need to be understood and cannot be dismissed based your feelings. These are not always black and white issues.
I think the balance is found in better practicing masculine and feminine roles as the bible calls for, although pursuing it in more detail than is commonly understood, so that both men and women can be more trusted overall to escape the curse.
If Christians really want to help others then give greater leadership in marriage with making clear what good leadership and boundaries look like.
One good way to understand masculine and feminine is through visual images that say a thousand words with deeper feelings.
I have posted repeatedly the loving feminine in pictures, videos and words.
The feminine radiates from women more easily from images than it does from men.
Masculinity is more about doing stuff to prove stuff.
For that I will make dance videos to show how a warrior moves.
Part of masculinity is sacrifice: the short for the long term, self for others, flesh for spirit.
The ultimate sacrifice is Jesus on the cross that gives us the power to do everything.
I will dance the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus.
It will be the wildest dance you ever saw. I have unleashed my wild man dance style in clubs in clubs where people watched or said I was the best dancer in the club—and that was before I was spirit filled.
I say let’s make Christianity cool without compromise. Compromise is feminized. The ultimate masculine comes from God the father.
Bring on the Holy Spirit, baby!
