Men Need to Lead in Love
Men need to lead in more ways than most are prepare to do now.
Some are still caught in complaining about how women don’t want them even though they are such a nice guy.
Some have graduated to giving up on selfish non feminine women and seek especially women from other countries that are feminine with whom interactions just flow better.
The highest quality marriages will require men to lead or match a woman in the areas of
Intimate communication
Healing
Health
Sex
Relationship work on the details of these areas is mostly lead by secular people under the banner of masculine and feminine polarity.
The bible also calls for the same masculine and feminine polarity using terms like man is the head of household. And the woman is his “helper” that “submits” instead of argues. They can be equals and agree in which case “submission” does not need to be evoked for her to stand down. But women generally want men to lead so they don’t have to make as many decisions.
If a man can’t they she may feel like she has to take control. Sometimes a woman is too controlling ub the first place so men have to be aware and select wisely and not tolerate any disrespect.
Healing the childhood stuff is essential so that early patterns don’t make us repeat the same mistakes, like only being attracted to people at the level our parents denied us. It does not matter how you attempt to lead a woman when this is going on, so don’t make it about you and saving her through heroic effort.
In the area of healing there is nothing that compares to healing through Jesus and prayer teams in sprit filled churches, known as Pentecostal, like the Assemblies of God being in nearly every city in the USA.
We also have to be filled with love from the Holy Spirit to fully resist the temptations of the world. People with a lot of sexual past need to be healed from that and reorient to love from God rather than all the temptations of the flesh world.
We need a spouse who is “equally yoked” or the same level of faith.
Maybe she can also challenge you to be better, but not from a domineering perspective that contradicts her role as a wife but by being a good example and a gentle calming presence and source of peace. See 1 Peter 3, depending on the translation.
Physical health requires study and discipline to but the right things, not emotional eating. Often a woman may be more educated and leading in this part of the relationship and that’s fine, especially if she is doing the food preparation for the family. But if she is not health oriented, he needs to make sure she is and set boundaries against junk food and giving into kids’ demands.. Being healthy solves many life problems, makes one more productive, and especially leads to a better sex life. If she is trying to lead you into health sensibly, let her do it as your helper, don’t be a stubborn butt head.
To get respect and have a hot marriage we need to satisfy our wives.
The bible requires that spouses satisfy each other without continuous denial.
This means enough sexual skill so she wants it and is not doing it out of obligation and duty.
Keep the communication going. Pay attention. Stop if you don’t feel energy coming back to you.
One of the hottest things that is actually basic to heterosexual relationships is the dominant and submissive sexual dynamic. You can look up what that means. All my women have taken to that naturally when treated well. I’m speaking of the extensive experience I had before being saved but I don’t date like that anymore.
Some women have a desire to escape their masculinized career life or own controlling tendencies by first reversing that through sexual submission. I would put up adds online and invite them to my house to be for such sexual role play with a clear understanding of what we were going to do and limits.
It’s very hard for men to understand who are afraid to hurt women and of their own masculinity. It’s very disturbing to learn that you have been lied to or not seen this, but women are way kinkier than you think. Satisfying the primitive part of their brain can help them be happier and behave better in a normal relationship.
The most repeated instruction for women in the bible is for women to submit to their husbands, and there is nothing that says this does not apply sexually. In fact, it is hottest most loving thing a wife can do for her husband to keep love alive.
I am available for coaching in relationships, also in combination with health if necessary to get your hormones up to bring out your sex characteristics for men or women. Write me a note telling me what you want to work out and we can discuss how to proceed.
Some are still caught in complaining about how women don’t want them even though they are such a nice guy.
Some have graduated to giving up on selfish non feminine women and seek especially women from other countries that are feminine with whom interactions just flow better.
The highest quality marriages will require men to lead or match a woman in the areas of
Intimate communication
Healing
Health
Sex
Relationship work on the details of these areas is mostly lead by secular people under the banner of masculine and feminine polarity.
The bible also calls for the same masculine and feminine polarity using terms like man is the head of household. And the woman is his “helper” that “submits” instead of argues. They can be equals and agree in which case “submission” does not need to be evoked for her to stand down. But women generally want men to lead so they don’t have to make as many decisions.
If a man can’t they she may feel like she has to take control. Sometimes a woman is too controlling ub the first place so men have to be aware and select wisely and not tolerate any disrespect.
Healing the childhood stuff is essential so that early patterns don’t make us repeat the same mistakes, like only being attracted to people at the level our parents denied us. It does not matter how you attempt to lead a woman when this is going on, so don’t make it about you and saving her through heroic effort.
In the area of healing there is nothing that compares to healing through Jesus and prayer teams in sprit filled churches, known as Pentecostal, like the Assemblies of God being in nearly every city in the USA.
We also have to be filled with love from the Holy Spirit to fully resist the temptations of the world. People with a lot of sexual past need to be healed from that and reorient to love from God rather than all the temptations of the flesh world.
We need a spouse who is “equally yoked” or the same level of faith.
Maybe she can also challenge you to be better, but not from a domineering perspective that contradicts her role as a wife but by being a good example and a gentle calming presence and source of peace. See 1 Peter 3, depending on the translation.
Physical health requires study and discipline to but the right things, not emotional eating. Often a woman may be more educated and leading in this part of the relationship and that’s fine, especially if she is doing the food preparation for the family. But if she is not health oriented, he needs to make sure she is and set boundaries against junk food and giving into kids’ demands.. Being healthy solves many life problems, makes one more productive, and especially leads to a better sex life. If she is trying to lead you into health sensibly, let her do it as your helper, don’t be a stubborn butt head.
To get respect and have a hot marriage we need to satisfy our wives.
The bible requires that spouses satisfy each other without continuous denial.
This means enough sexual skill so she wants it and is not doing it out of obligation and duty.
Keep the communication going. Pay attention. Stop if you don’t feel energy coming back to you.
One of the hottest things that is actually basic to heterosexual relationships is the dominant and submissive sexual dynamic. You can look up what that means. All my women have taken to that naturally when treated well. I’m speaking of the extensive experience I had before being saved but I don’t date like that anymore.
Some women have a desire to escape their masculinized career life or own controlling tendencies by first reversing that through sexual submission. I would put up adds online and invite them to my house to be for such sexual role play with a clear understanding of what we were going to do and limits.
It’s very hard for men to understand who are afraid to hurt women and of their own masculinity. It’s very disturbing to learn that you have been lied to or not seen this, but women are way kinkier than you think. Satisfying the primitive part of their brain can help them be happier and behave better in a normal relationship.
The most repeated instruction for women in the bible is for women to submit to their husbands, and there is nothing that says this does not apply sexually. In fact, it is hottest most loving thing a wife can do for her husband to keep love alive.
I am available for coaching in relationships, also in combination with health if necessary to get your hormones up to bring out your sex characteristics for men or women. Write me a note telling me what you want to work out and we can discuss how to proceed.
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Free Assessment
See how I support you fully in
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I work over video: Facebook, Zoom, Google, from Michigan, USA
[email protected]
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enough to make a difference
Simple
enough to implement
Sensitive
to individual needs
