Nicey Leads to Nasty
Being too nice means boundaries are not defended and unprincipled abusers are unconfronted and run wild.
It is a myth that Christians always have to be nicey, nicey and never get angry.
Jesus said he came with a sword to divide families based on whether they follow God.
When someone said I will join you after I go to a family funeral, Jesus said, “Let the dead bury the dead.”
When Jesus confronted the desecraters in the temple he was raging.
He did not say in a soft voice, “Excuse me, but I kinda like have to turn over this table. Sorry, can I help you clean that up?”
Jesus actually said he hated some of his enemies. He just knew who the real enemies were, he did not hate all unbelievers.
Nicey leading to nasty is especially the case with relations between men and women.
The bible says that the major problem of role reversal like Adam abdicating leadership, kind of like being too nice.
This occurs when women step out their biblical roles like Eve leading Adam, or Genesis 3:16 “You shall desire to control your husband, but he shall rule.”
Rule is the prescription, although there can be an overcompensation when couples do not have a respectful Biblical marriage.
This is the third curse that many women will naturally try to abuse men if a man is not strong. Most Christian women will immediately violently oppose talking about it because they are feminists and Jezebels that hate men. They act on their feelings of anger.
There is no rational discussion. Just arguments and accusations.
“You shall be contrary to your husband and he shall rule over you.”
Contrary is argue, argue, argue and until the men give up because they don’t want to invest so much energy in negativity.
Men are avoiding conflict rather than standing up for what’s right.
They are Ahabs being manipulated and lead around by the balls.
It’s a narcissist and codependent dynamic.
Hard core narcissists cannot be reformed. They can only be isolated.
I know women who follow the bible by saying they prefer men in leadership and they submit to their husbands. They face verbally violent abuse for saying that. That’s the hatred of Jezebel.
Even non believers and women in general prefer male supervisors, pole after pole has shown.
But you can’t talk about it. All they can do is change the subject and wear you down with distraction. That’s the devil’s plan.
This will never end until men stand together to make each other strong, not pander for female attention and capitulate to pressure. Men are too feminized, they don’t understand masculinity in terms of boundaries, leadership and rational thinking.
It is a myth that Christians always have to be nicey, nicey and never get angry.
Jesus said he came with a sword to divide families based on whether they follow God.
When someone said I will join you after I go to a family funeral, Jesus said, “Let the dead bury the dead.”
When Jesus confronted the desecraters in the temple he was raging.
He did not say in a soft voice, “Excuse me, but I kinda like have to turn over this table. Sorry, can I help you clean that up?”
Jesus actually said he hated some of his enemies. He just knew who the real enemies were, he did not hate all unbelievers.
Nicey leading to nasty is especially the case with relations between men and women.
The bible says that the major problem of role reversal like Adam abdicating leadership, kind of like being too nice.
This occurs when women step out their biblical roles like Eve leading Adam, or Genesis 3:16 “You shall desire to control your husband, but he shall rule.”
Rule is the prescription, although there can be an overcompensation when couples do not have a respectful Biblical marriage.
This is the third curse that many women will naturally try to abuse men if a man is not strong. Most Christian women will immediately violently oppose talking about it because they are feminists and Jezebels that hate men. They act on their feelings of anger.
There is no rational discussion. Just arguments and accusations.
“You shall be contrary to your husband and he shall rule over you.”
Contrary is argue, argue, argue and until the men give up because they don’t want to invest so much energy in negativity.
Men are avoiding conflict rather than standing up for what’s right.
They are Ahabs being manipulated and lead around by the balls.
It’s a narcissist and codependent dynamic.
Hard core narcissists cannot be reformed. They can only be isolated.
I know women who follow the bible by saying they prefer men in leadership and they submit to their husbands. They face verbally violent abuse for saying that. That’s the hatred of Jezebel.
Even non believers and women in general prefer male supervisors, pole after pole has shown.
But you can’t talk about it. All they can do is change the subject and wear you down with distraction. That’s the devil’s plan.
This will never end until men stand together to make each other strong, not pander for female attention and capitulate to pressure. Men are too feminized, they don’t understand masculinity in terms of boundaries, leadership and rational thinking.
