The Heart Tames Lust 

When my heart is way open even near nudity does not distract me and kick me down to lust.

My recent encounter with champion of bikini fitness Nathalia Melo with her supreme smile captivates the direction of my energy not her "best ass in the world."
I can feel with heart not just dick.
I can still feel attraction but it's bigger. And it does not simply distract from the attraction.
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The ratio of feminine love to physical sexiness is more favorable to the former. A good smile always wins as the most important part of a woman.

I'm on a wave of excitement of going to another level of appreciation and freedom and not once got too excited over this.
I can embrace her full beauty without having to limit it and thus I defy and conquer lust.

I feel like an innocent like Adam in the garden naked experiencing the greatest love, nude without shame.
When cut off from the heart sex can become a prison, an addiction, a compulsion that cannot make up for the lack of love.
With love abstinence required in my beliefs when outside of marriage becomes bearble. There is longing for closness, affection.

Poses with a serious seductive look don't express affection or caring.
Then sex is all that there is left to feel.
It's like a spell that you are suppose to lust after them, and then they are suppose to deny you like a super model or something like that. Haughty. It's a tease culture.
They are Jezebels casting a spell of sexual manipulation, control and misery. They have come to destroy.

Women may complain that men are just after sex, but that's really the women offer when they are not feminine and often man hating. .
Bigger than sex is feminine love seen in the smile, the eyes. the tones, the gestures, the words.

Women will understand what I'm saying as seeing the whole women not just body parts.
But that does not say much without saying how and what?
What? is the feminine in a woman in which love is better than sexiness.
How? is opening ones heart and getting sensitive to these women that some men cannot see and feel because they are not the equivalent of these woman.

There are many ways to get sensitive and feel in a wider range.
1. Conscious work.
2 Music.
3. The other is to be polarized in the equivalent masculine to be in that dance and that complementary vibe.

I'm attracted to athletes showing achievement. Not just someone born pretty and spoiled. It's not about this or that body type. This kind of body builder is a fine body type, total repect.

See if you can hold your frame and focus on feminine radiant love rather than get horny over these pictures.