What Men Face

The main theme of relationship trouble I see is weak men and controling women.
They are not in their full natual polarity of him being strongly masculine and her being feminine, supportive and nurturing.

Many men think as long as they are getting sex and not stuck in the friend zone they have earned acceptance and love. But that does not mean respect, emotional intimacy, trust and loyalty.

Many women settle for a man they don't love or even fully respect. They want kids. Some plan to divorce from the beginning once the kids are in school and she can go to work.

Women often believe they are superior because feminists and the entire culture tells them so.

Hook up culture also inflates their belief in their value because a woman who is a 5 can often have sex with a 7 or 8 when he has nothing better to do or needs a confidence booster.
Then these women think they are an 8 even though those men would never comment to them. She tells herself stories like he has commitment issues. Maybe she can fix him. She likes drama and challenge.

It is also well known that the more men a woman has sex with the least likely she is to be loyal long term. She always thinks she can do better or just is just bored and addicted to variety.

Most American women never learn to be feminine.
They do not take responsibility for their faults.
They are selish, angry, entiled and argumenative as a safe generalization.
It is my impression that most are permanently ruined and can never understand.
Many qualify as clinical narcissists. Especially the ones calling everyone else a naracisissit when they don't agree.
I have talked to foreign women who see American women as the problem and they enjoy opening up to me they are not so guarded and don't see American men as the problem.

Many men are giving up on dating and just saying no to women generally. They are tired of women mistreating them.

There is a movement to marry foreign women called passport bros.
Men still need to be wise because they can get used by foreign women, too.
Everyone needs to learn to heal and communocate still, but at least if you do the work you have a better chance of finding a foreign woman.

Some ethnic groups with stonger traditional influences have maintained feminine and masculine roles: arab, asian, latina, eastern european and you may find them here.

I don't limit myself just to generalizations but give everyone a chance. I have trained myself to see feminine love in a woman. We all want the highest quality compatible match.

Today's appreciation exchange was when I was walking into the grocery store and caught a woman looking at me through a car windown wided eyed--maybe my hair caught her attention along with my energy. Her energy was great so I smiled big and nice with joy. She smiled back and she was really pretty. But she looked away quickly so she did not want me to stop. She was waiting for someone maybe her kids. Pretty sure she was Arab, I was in Dearborn Heights, Michigan.