Relationship Success
Skill
Understanding
Healing
Spiritual Warfare
SKILL: Polarity of Masculine and Feminine
This is about achieving masculine and feminine romantic polarity between men and women with men being predominantly masculine and women more feminine
Healthy polarity is men leading and women supporting.
Each person will also have some of the opposite sex characteristics for well-rounded balance.
Too many relationships are suffering with reverse polarity.
As David Deida said, “There are too many wimps and ball busters.”
When men do not step-up, women tend to try to take charge and then you get reverse polarity and usually abuse as she becomes critical and controlling. Since more often women are aware of the need to change they often try to lead the transformation, when what they need to do is express their need in a more feminine way to stop emasculating him and controlling him but back-off and support him.
Men in this position must establish boundaries to stop the endless complaining that is presented as psychological insight about deep things “coming-up” when really it is actually irrational arguing. What is really being tested is if he is strong enough to defend himself because, when not, she feels he cannot even defend her or lead. At best, he acts like he can reason through this when sometimes the only thing that works is to tell her to shut up. That can break the spell and immediately reverse the relationship as I have proven in my own life in marriage or even on a first date and taught others to do it and it worked when all the “processing” and “compassion” failed.
If a man can’t do this, then he will need to do it.
If he can do it, then he won’t need to do it.
Proud pseudo experts will just argue with me but they are wrong, as this crisis has spun out of control without proper guidance for far too long.
For women in the position of trying to improve their relationship, they should not see the skill level just instrumentally, otherwise their new feminine skills might just become a more indirect technique of manipulation. The underlying basic assumptions must change so the belief will guide the right actions to occur more spontaneously in each situation that cannot be learned mechanically.
UNDERSTANDING: Lover or Hater?
Are you really trying to understand your partner or win an argument?
Key beliefs are related to women feeling superior and thus the need to lead and change men
As one new age coach said, “Most men need to be emotionally potty trained.”
Such condescending contempt is simply taken for granted as natural in many circles.
The belief in female moral superiority has lead many women to be angry and men to be ashamed to be men because they believe this, too. They are the feminist men or hyper chivalrous traditional men that throw other men under the bus for not being man enough to gain approval from women.
The root cause is often related to a victim mentality, “I was dating a narcissist” is the latest version of this.
The victim mentality has been deeply cultivated for decades under the root cause assumption is that women are more abused than men. This is the theory of patriarchy that says that men have more power and privilege than women. This has been very thoroughly refuted in meticulous detail since 1993 with Warren Farrell’s book, The Myth of Male Power. The truth is so counter intuitive to what most people assume that it almost impossible to discuss it rationally and generates such anger to raise the issue that most people avoid the discussion. Among people who lean left, most women will not listen and just argue about who is the biggest victim. They will hate you and cancel you.
“I’ve been sexually abused” is often used to justify a victim mentality. It usually assumes that men and the man they are talking to has not. While sexual abuse may occur more to women, other disadvantages occur more to men: suicide, work place injuries, bias in courts, etc. It all evens out in the end, proves Tim Goldich, author of “Loving Men, Respecting Women,” a comprehensive comparison of empirically measurable quality of life indictors and false frames and narratives that undermine real equality.
Being a bigger victim is a source of moral superiority and entitlement, “You owe me, men.”
Women taking this stand get their moral superiority from having less power, so it undermines empowerment. It undercuts responsibility because men have the power. It’s a strategy of blame and shame.
It has lead to a zero sum power model of taking down men to elevate women. This is easily seen in daily micro aggressions, condescending tones, eye rolling when men speak, shaming, and innumerable clever, blatant subtle female nastiness that has been deeply practiced and rolls out at blinding speed leaving men stunned and speechless with little leadership of their own.
These beliefs are likely active when techniques of relationship improvement are not working. The average psychological professional is biased toward women and cannot solve this.
False beliefs are often rationalizations for things when people are not able to heal trauma at the energetic level.
HEALING
Energy is what I call the effects of trauma especially at childhood and sexual abuse that is so deep and physical that no amount of talk therapy can cure it.
I have tried many energetic healing from new age, shamanic and eastern religions and only found prayer healing in the tradition of Jesus to work.
Much energetic healing can create a great feeling of freedom that does not last and can even make things worse because it often opens a door for more external parasitic entities to enter, but you can’t see that. Thus, energetic healing should be addressed with methods that can address these entities.
SPIRITUAL WARFARE
In new age circles the idea of energetic or spiritual entities is widely accepted, and are also accepted within eastern religions. Energetic parasites or spirits that want to do you harm and feed on it. Some intuitive people can see it. While they often have insight, I have found their methods to be ineffective.
What has worked best are people following the original Jesus teachings to cast out demons, which is what entities are. This is commonly known as exorcism but also deliverance, as in deliver me from evil, and spiritual warfare. There is a huge community for this with many books and fee online mass deliverance and prayers, and I already posted videos you can find.
About 99% of Christians do not do this and actively oppose it in direct defiance of what Jesus taught. No wonder people get so turned off by what they think Christianity is when they only know about Sunday only fast-food, MacDonalds Christianity, as if showing up to church is like buying a ticket to heaven like a Disneyland ride.
Spiritual warfare methods identify the names of demons and the top of the hierarchy, the strong man, to get them all out: Jezebel, Leviathan, Incest, Rejection, etc, all working under Lucifer.
Demons follow rules and obey commands, eventually, when their legal rights to be there are removed.
Legal rights include:
This is way more advanced than going to a new age healer for a healing but not integrating it into your life. Other techniques do not address what opened the doors and gave legal rights to demons, so they just come back, or never left because the healer does not have authority. Demons will create an illusion of healing so that you will stop and just to make fun of you.
One must heal with prayer, learn to cast out and rebuke demons, and get help from others because you can’t deliver yourself fully.
Watch videos of Bob Larson casting out demons that manifest and talk through the person even in English when that person does not know English.
The existence of demons in my life became clear when I aligned with Christ and the counter attacks where immediate: nightmare attacks, events, nasty people showing up, computer problems like an Amazon order for a spiritual book cancelling itself. It’s actually a great confirmation. Demons overplay their hand and brag to the deliverer so you can identify and cast them out. Demons are losers who can only destroy, the power of God is greater, but your faith will be tested.
One of the main things demons do is keep you from focusing on your healing. This is the basis of much self sabotage. As ex-Satanist John Ramierez explains, “The devil fragments.” That’s a very important statement to a systems theorist because you can’t solve problems without seeing how all the parts relate as a whole for a complete solutions. Fragmentation also applies to implementation. So many people cannot focus enough to read or apply the health plan I gave them. I experienced that and as I get delivered I get better and better at the science of my work and writing.
Jezebel the Man-Hater, the Most Common Demon
Jezebel is a demon behind man hating, manipulation, and deception in many forms, including getting side-tracked into incorrect spirituality, even within legitimate churches, undermining the pastor, etc.
She is behind the reverse polarity of relationships to undermine God’s natural order of things because that’s what Luciferians or Satanists do.
This operates on 3 levels
Jezebel serves under the high level demon Lilth, whom Satanists say was the first wife of Adam but was rejected for ‘wanting to be on top all the time.’ Their goal is to replace the legacy of Eve. Even if this is not true, it at least states their intention as matriarchy. If it is true, it has been removed from the Biblical canon by the Satanic Pharisee Jews that were custodians of the old Testament or the Satanists in the Vatican. They don’t want us to know the real story. The Vatican side-tracks us in the non-Biblical praying to mother Mary as part of feminizing moral reasoning.
The demon of Jezebel is named after a Canaanite born queen that married the king of Israel, Ahab before 800 BC. She convinced him to stop following Yahweh and follow the pagan Satanic God of Baal. She had prophets murdered and fostered corruption. A demon of Ahab can also be seen as the spirit of being wimpy in men that acquiesces to such manipulation and domination.
I recommend Bob Larwon’s book, “Jezebel: Your Number One Spiritual Enemy.”
The root causes of any particular relationships problem can be much deeper that we think.
So you just wanted to figure out how to ask your husband to take out the garbage in a nice way?
That’s not the garbage you should be worried about.
This is about achieving masculine and feminine romantic polarity between men and women with men being predominantly masculine and women more feminine
Healthy polarity is men leading and women supporting.
Each person will also have some of the opposite sex characteristics for well-rounded balance.
Too many relationships are suffering with reverse polarity.
As David Deida said, “There are too many wimps and ball busters.”
When men do not step-up, women tend to try to take charge and then you get reverse polarity and usually abuse as she becomes critical and controlling. Since more often women are aware of the need to change they often try to lead the transformation, when what they need to do is express their need in a more feminine way to stop emasculating him and controlling him but back-off and support him.
Men in this position must establish boundaries to stop the endless complaining that is presented as psychological insight about deep things “coming-up” when really it is actually irrational arguing. What is really being tested is if he is strong enough to defend himself because, when not, she feels he cannot even defend her or lead. At best, he acts like he can reason through this when sometimes the only thing that works is to tell her to shut up. That can break the spell and immediately reverse the relationship as I have proven in my own life in marriage or even on a first date and taught others to do it and it worked when all the “processing” and “compassion” failed.
If a man can’t do this, then he will need to do it.
If he can do it, then he won’t need to do it.
Proud pseudo experts will just argue with me but they are wrong, as this crisis has spun out of control without proper guidance for far too long.
For women in the position of trying to improve their relationship, they should not see the skill level just instrumentally, otherwise their new feminine skills might just become a more indirect technique of manipulation. The underlying basic assumptions must change so the belief will guide the right actions to occur more spontaneously in each situation that cannot be learned mechanically.
UNDERSTANDING: Lover or Hater?
Are you really trying to understand your partner or win an argument?
Key beliefs are related to women feeling superior and thus the need to lead and change men
As one new age coach said, “Most men need to be emotionally potty trained.”
Such condescending contempt is simply taken for granted as natural in many circles.
The belief in female moral superiority has lead many women to be angry and men to be ashamed to be men because they believe this, too. They are the feminist men or hyper chivalrous traditional men that throw other men under the bus for not being man enough to gain approval from women.
The root cause is often related to a victim mentality, “I was dating a narcissist” is the latest version of this.
The victim mentality has been deeply cultivated for decades under the root cause assumption is that women are more abused than men. This is the theory of patriarchy that says that men have more power and privilege than women. This has been very thoroughly refuted in meticulous detail since 1993 with Warren Farrell’s book, The Myth of Male Power. The truth is so counter intuitive to what most people assume that it almost impossible to discuss it rationally and generates such anger to raise the issue that most people avoid the discussion. Among people who lean left, most women will not listen and just argue about who is the biggest victim. They will hate you and cancel you.
“I’ve been sexually abused” is often used to justify a victim mentality. It usually assumes that men and the man they are talking to has not. While sexual abuse may occur more to women, other disadvantages occur more to men: suicide, work place injuries, bias in courts, etc. It all evens out in the end, proves Tim Goldich, author of “Loving Men, Respecting Women,” a comprehensive comparison of empirically measurable quality of life indictors and false frames and narratives that undermine real equality.
Being a bigger victim is a source of moral superiority and entitlement, “You owe me, men.”
Women taking this stand get their moral superiority from having less power, so it undermines empowerment. It undercuts responsibility because men have the power. It’s a strategy of blame and shame.
It has lead to a zero sum power model of taking down men to elevate women. This is easily seen in daily micro aggressions, condescending tones, eye rolling when men speak, shaming, and innumerable clever, blatant subtle female nastiness that has been deeply practiced and rolls out at blinding speed leaving men stunned and speechless with little leadership of their own.
These beliefs are likely active when techniques of relationship improvement are not working. The average psychological professional is biased toward women and cannot solve this.
False beliefs are often rationalizations for things when people are not able to heal trauma at the energetic level.
HEALING
Energy is what I call the effects of trauma especially at childhood and sexual abuse that is so deep and physical that no amount of talk therapy can cure it.
I have tried many energetic healing from new age, shamanic and eastern religions and only found prayer healing in the tradition of Jesus to work.
Much energetic healing can create a great feeling of freedom that does not last and can even make things worse because it often opens a door for more external parasitic entities to enter, but you can’t see that. Thus, energetic healing should be addressed with methods that can address these entities.
SPIRITUAL WARFARE
In new age circles the idea of energetic or spiritual entities is widely accepted, and are also accepted within eastern religions. Energetic parasites or spirits that want to do you harm and feed on it. Some intuitive people can see it. While they often have insight, I have found their methods to be ineffective.
What has worked best are people following the original Jesus teachings to cast out demons, which is what entities are. This is commonly known as exorcism but also deliverance, as in deliver me from evil, and spiritual warfare. There is a huge community for this with many books and fee online mass deliverance and prayers, and I already posted videos you can find.
About 99% of Christians do not do this and actively oppose it in direct defiance of what Jesus taught. No wonder people get so turned off by what they think Christianity is when they only know about Sunday only fast-food, MacDonalds Christianity, as if showing up to church is like buying a ticket to heaven like a Disneyland ride.
Spiritual warfare methods identify the names of demons and the top of the hierarchy, the strong man, to get them all out: Jezebel, Leviathan, Incest, Rejection, etc, all working under Lucifer.
Demons follow rules and obey commands, eventually, when their legal rights to be there are removed.
Legal rights include:
- Trauma that is unhealed
- Curses placed on you individually
- Generational curses, especially from child sacrifice from hundreds of years ago.
- Participation is false religions, especially Satanic things like the Free Masons, Catholicism, and witchcraft by you or anyone in your lineage.
- Unethical conduct
- Anger, unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment etc.
- Man hating beliefs, that’s the big hook I explain below.
This is way more advanced than going to a new age healer for a healing but not integrating it into your life. Other techniques do not address what opened the doors and gave legal rights to demons, so they just come back, or never left because the healer does not have authority. Demons will create an illusion of healing so that you will stop and just to make fun of you.
One must heal with prayer, learn to cast out and rebuke demons, and get help from others because you can’t deliver yourself fully.
Watch videos of Bob Larson casting out demons that manifest and talk through the person even in English when that person does not know English.
The existence of demons in my life became clear when I aligned with Christ and the counter attacks where immediate: nightmare attacks, events, nasty people showing up, computer problems like an Amazon order for a spiritual book cancelling itself. It’s actually a great confirmation. Demons overplay their hand and brag to the deliverer so you can identify and cast them out. Demons are losers who can only destroy, the power of God is greater, but your faith will be tested.
One of the main things demons do is keep you from focusing on your healing. This is the basis of much self sabotage. As ex-Satanist John Ramierez explains, “The devil fragments.” That’s a very important statement to a systems theorist because you can’t solve problems without seeing how all the parts relate as a whole for a complete solutions. Fragmentation also applies to implementation. So many people cannot focus enough to read or apply the health plan I gave them. I experienced that and as I get delivered I get better and better at the science of my work and writing.
Jezebel the Man-Hater, the Most Common Demon
Jezebel is a demon behind man hating, manipulation, and deception in many forms, including getting side-tracked into incorrect spirituality, even within legitimate churches, undermining the pastor, etc.
She is behind the reverse polarity of relationships to undermine God’s natural order of things because that’s what Luciferians or Satanists do.
This operates on 3 levels
- Reverse polarity: destructive relationship dynamics.
- Reverse moral reasoning; Feminize moral reasoning into relativism and a victim mentality used to create a leftist fascist politics
- Reverse following God the Father, rejected as patriarchy, in favor of matriarchy and Goddess worship, which has historically required ritualized rape, child sacrifice, and drinking blood for adrenachrome, some favorite personal empowerment methods for Satanists.
Jezebel serves under the high level demon Lilth, whom Satanists say was the first wife of Adam but was rejected for ‘wanting to be on top all the time.’ Their goal is to replace the legacy of Eve. Even if this is not true, it at least states their intention as matriarchy. If it is true, it has been removed from the Biblical canon by the Satanic Pharisee Jews that were custodians of the old Testament or the Satanists in the Vatican. They don’t want us to know the real story. The Vatican side-tracks us in the non-Biblical praying to mother Mary as part of feminizing moral reasoning.
The demon of Jezebel is named after a Canaanite born queen that married the king of Israel, Ahab before 800 BC. She convinced him to stop following Yahweh and follow the pagan Satanic God of Baal. She had prophets murdered and fostered corruption. A demon of Ahab can also be seen as the spirit of being wimpy in men that acquiesces to such manipulation and domination.
I recommend Bob Larwon’s book, “Jezebel: Your Number One Spiritual Enemy.”
The root causes of any particular relationships problem can be much deeper that we think.
So you just wanted to figure out how to ask your husband to take out the garbage in a nice way?
That’s not the garbage you should be worried about.
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Find out what you get in a
Free Assessment
See how I support you fully in
Health Coaching Steps
I work over video: Facebook, Zoom, Google, from Michigan, USA Hess.PaulC@gmail.com
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Primal Rejuvenation
Systematic
enough to make a difference
Simple
enough to implement
Sensitive
to individual needs
